Each person casts judgement upon what they expect life to be. An expectation is created on how life should be then, at any given time, one judges life in relation to that original expectation. If the expectation isn’t met one may question life. “If I do this I expect this to happen”. Blindly placing expectations on life, without the guidance of who designed the path, is a hard way to live. When all the work is done towards expectations and judgement comes back as insufficient, what emotions are caused? Regret, envy, anger, frustration, resentment, or sadness most likely will be caused. Once gratitude becomes a judgement, appreciation for current position and all trials that led to that point, perspective of expectation can be altered. Faults of the expectation and of the actions taken can be re-examined, if necessary. Accepting what is done is done and moving forward is, with better guidance, more beneficial.
In addition to the emotions felt at time of judgement of expectation, one may ask the question: what is the purpose or meaning of life then? Also known as “the secret to life”. Regardless if worded as meaning, purpose, or secret the fact remains the same; who are you asking that question to? Asking others who have had similar experiences or set backs, most likely, won’t have an answer. Others, who say to have that answer, may feel their life is only sufficient to their expectation and are content, so they will explain their path as if it’s a “one size fits all”. In the end, who can be asked such a deep question?
Meaning and purpose must be set by something. Can searching for what they might be outwardly, asking someone else, result in an answer for you? Did they set your life meaning or purpose? Do you want to chase after their meaning or purpose? Only inwardly can these answer be found. It takes a leap of faith to believe our paths are all set by God and that He knows and gives us what’s best for us but that’s what faith is. Without that faith, it’s a blind scramble to find the answer. Conducting one’s life closely inline with Gods purpose without knowing Him is a blessing that, if realized, can cause one to now live in grace. The further one deviates off Gods path, the deeper into the darkness one will be lost.
Regardless of accomplishments, success, or pleasures felt; when the glory, given to yourself, and the pleasures fade, what is left? Confusion. Why doesn’t this still feel right? Why am I not happy yet? What am I missing here? God doesn’t work in confusion and denying his guidance there’s no way to navigate out of the darkness and confusion. Find what God, the one who created all including you, had expected or planned for your life and then you can be expecting better judgement.
“Go to now, ye that say, To day or to morrow we will go into such a city, and continue there a year, and buy and sell, and get gain: whereas ye know not what shall be on the morrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapour, that appeareth for a little time, and then vanisheth away.”
James 4:13-14 KJV